By Tony Bylsma CCDC*
The future of this planet is
in the hands of our kids, but the future of our kids is in our hands. Just another
obvious platitude? Perhaps, but the statement is still the truth.
In the Narconon Drug Abuse Prevention Program we spend a large portion of
our time in front of children. Kids
these days are different from the kids of twenty or thirty years ago; on the
subject of drugs, they are more informed and less willing to accept whatever is
told to them by some adult.
Something as important as the
education of our youth on the dangers of drug use and abuse must have impact
without being mere platitude.
It is actually surprising
when we find, after a drug prevention presentation, that the most impressive
thing to the students is the fact that we didn’t try to tell them what to
do. We didn’t try to make them jump in
the direction we wanted and we refrained from giving them little sayings they
could repeat endlessly and which would themselves become eventually
pointless.
Advertisers have known for
years how to push an emotional button in a child or an adult and get a desired
reaction. There is a vast difference between reactions
and decisions. A reaction is something
you can get in a Petri dish from an unthinking fungus; a decision is entirely
different.
We want the kids to act
responsibly, yet we treat them as if they’re not responsible at all. Do we think that this small human being
wants to do himself in? Has it been
that long since we were children ourselves that we don’t remember being told
what and how to think and how we resented it?
If we continue to apply
psychological tricks to our children to try to get them to do what we want them
to do and in the end complain that they are not acting responsibly we can only
blame ourselves for the outcome.
To try and employ ‘emotional
triggers’ to get the reactions we want from our kids is a dangerous
tactic. They must inevitably resent us
for trying to rule them with tricks and end up doing the exact opposite of what
we desired.
At the Narconon program, we have
had considerable experience in drug prevention.
Our drug prevention speakers have spoken to hundreds of thousands of young
people from age eight on up and have diligently surveyed them afterward. From the mountains of surveys we have
collected, one of the many things we have learned is this: these kids are
young, but they are not insane. They do
not want to hurt themselves. Students
tell us over and over that they don’t want to hurt their bodies; that their
health is one of the most important things to them and they will avoid doing something
that they’re convinced will be unhealthful.
It is imperative that we
recognize that kids DO have the power of choice and they will base their
decisions on the information they have and trust. As adults we cannot control their decisions
regarding drugs. What we CAN do is
direct them to plenty of solid, useful information about drugs and the damages
drugs can do.
If educators and health
experts ensure young people have all the necessary information regarding drugs
of abuse, if teachers and parents make
sure that kids are informed enough to make a decision as well as any adult
regarding drugs, then we’re going to finally see a reduction in the numbers of
kids going down the road that leaves them burned out, with wasted capacities and ruined
potentials.
There is only one sure way to avoid the damages and destruction of drug
abuse—to never start. That is what we must teach our
youth. That is real harm reduction.
Narconon. The Road Out
Mr. Tony Bylsma, a Certified Chemical Dependency Counselor and
Executive Director of Narconon Drug Prevention & Education, has
since 1980 educated many thousands of students on the dangers of drugs.
In addition he has years of experience in rehabilitating drug addicts.
He can be reached at 1-888-966-3784.
* Certified Chemical Dependency Counselor
Toll Free: 888-9NO-DRUGS or 888-966-3784 |